At the end of the day.....I guess everyone is broken and hurting and damaged. The difference is the degree of the damage.

So when you meet someone you want to judge,  I feel like that's God calling you to recognized that you aren't as bad off as you think you are. You could be worse off.

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I don't really know how it's supposed to be "empowering" to attempt change, half-ass your effort, fail, and then say "Well I guess I'm just gonna accept this because it's easier than actually trying"